इंसान की फितरत देख कर जान लो उसके चक्रो की गति

इंसान की फितरत देख कर जान लो उसके

 चक्रो की गति … जो मोह  ,तृष्णा ,भय ,घृणा ,क्रूरता और आलस्य में हो तो जान लो की मूलधारा,स्वधिस्तान ,मणिपुरम पशुवत्  पड़ा हैं। जो ह्रदय चक्र रहे सोता तो लिप्सा ,कपट ,कुतर्क ,चिंता , दंभ ,अविवेक ,अहंकार से साधक भरा पड़ा हैं। जो कंठ विशुधि  हो जागृत तो तो बहे सुरधारा सरस्वती की। नाश  दुर्गुणों  का हो ,दिव्य  श्रवण हो ,परोक्ष अनुभूतियों से साधक सजने लगता है। जो मणि त्रिनेत्र की भृकुटियों के बीच सज़ जाए तो हो जाये दर्शन स्वंभू  का , मिट जाये तम ,खो जाये संसार और हो मिलन आत्मा और परमात्मा का। जो बंद हो यह नेत्र तो सारा सच संसार हैं जो खुल जाए तो सब भगवान हैं।  जो खुले सहस्रार तो धरती से आकाश तक खुले  मार्ग ;महामार्ग। सात आकाशो का भ्रमण हो मिले सतगुरु हज़ार …

 मेरुदण्ड की यात्रा है पाताल से आकाश तक. हाथ जोड़ो नमन करो ,सतगुरु का ध्यान करो। ।जो प्रकाश रुपी सतगुरु ह्रदय में समाहित हो तो प्रकाश से प्रकाश का यह मिलान स्वाभाविक हो। माँ अनीता

WHAT IS LOVE SICKNESS ?NO SICKNESS AS LOVE SICKNESS

WHAT IS LOVE SICKNESS ?NO SICKNESS AS LOVE SICKNESS..........
Lovesickness is the feeling of helplessness and hopelessness that we associate with a failed exper...ience in love.
Almost all of us may have experienced it in various forms over the years.But for some people, it’s extremely hard to bounce back from lovesickness.
They carry the thoughts of a person in their mind for several years, and at times, even several decades.
.It's a chemical and physiological response that can actually impact your health and wellness.
signs of lovesickness --
1Mood swings. You almost always feel depressed or hopeless, and believe you have no reason to live if you can’t have this person’s affection.

2 Isolation. You love isolating yourself from the rest of the world. Nothing interests you anymore, and all of a sudden, you start to feel like none of your friends understand you or what you’re going through.
3 You’re tired all the time. The mental stress you endure constantly tires you easily, and you don’t have energy to do anything you want to do.
4 Appetite. Even looking at food makes you queasy. You suffer from loss of appetite and weight loss.
5 Distractions. You’re always distracted, and nothing you do ever feels like it’s to the best of your abilities.
You overanalyze. You spend several hours analyzing the things this person says or the particular words they use, and try to see things from different perspectives even if it’s something as trivial as a wave or a hello.
6 Tearful. You feel like crying for no reason at all. You feel depressed for the smallest of things and you’re oversensitive about everything in your life.
7 Insomnia. You have difficulty sleeping. Every time you lie down, your mind is filled with thoughts of your crush or your ex. You spend several hours tossing and turning in bed even if you try hard to just fall asleep
ways to stop feeling lovesick and move on with your life
1 Ask them out. Wear your heart on your sleeve and ask this person out. What’s the worst that could happen? They could decline you. It’s okay to fail at something. What’s worse is not trying!
2- Give yourself a reality check . Try to remember it all the time, be it their facial expressions, their low IQ, or their lack of etiquette. And compare them mentally to other good looking people you see on the street.Realize their selfish nature .when you stop messaging them and try to get out of your depression ,they send you message or mail to gain attention and when you reply them they avoid you and make you feel worthless . Once you realize that this person isn’t as awesome as you once thought they were, you’d be able to take them off the pedestal you’ve built for them.
3 Keep your mind occupied. What do you enjoy doing in your free time? Is it shopping? Is it playing games? Indulge in something that excites you and makes you feel good about yourself
4 Rationalize, but don’t obsess. It’s okay to think of this person now and then. Shutting them off completely may make the addiction worse. But each time you spend a few minutes thinking of this person, avoid drifting away into fantasyland. Reminisce, rationalize and move on within a few minutes.
LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST MEDITATE ,LOVE YOURSELF AND TRY TO REALIZE THE PRIORITIES OF YOUR LIFE .LIFE IS GIFT OF GOD TO US AND IT SHOULD NOT BE WASTED OR FINISHED JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE MADE YOU FEEL WORTHLESS .LEAVE YOUR PAST AND LOVE YOUR LIFE