THE WHOLE CONFUSION ABOUT CELIBACY

How much important it is to be celibate for Gurus ?

what does celibacy means in different layers of growth to seekers?

How celibacy happens?

I have seen that there are lots of judgement on the concept of celibacy. The absence of physical sex is celibacy? or the absence of mental sex is celibacy ? or the body is happening in sex yet you are unattached is celibacy?

The knowledge of TRUTH is profound mystery ( adyatmic gyan gudh rahasya) it has many layers of happening .what seekers read in books is only the tailor of happening .The main dissolving and growing process happens with many blasts within . which experiences cannot be shared.

One cannot be celibate with the concept that sex is wrong and so i should not indulge in sex , even if its feeling deep urge of sex within . Physically may be you can stop yourself but mentally the whole pron movie is going on .People think that if you meditate the vasanas should drop and you should be free from all desires.But in reality ..desires increase as u meditate . As you meditate you start becoming empty but the desires which has roots deep down starts coming on surface before it is GONE forever. Just like homeopathic medicine, which increases the illness before curing it totally .

As you meditate ...your awareness expands...u can be aware even while body is in sex. Try to stand apart from your body while you r in sex .WATCH.......whats happening ...watch yr breath ,watch your mind,watch whole act while you are into it .Because this is the moment where you can catch the neck of the horse called sex desire. when you are in the highest moment of any emotion or desire tht very point is THE VERY RIGHT MOMENT TO BE AWARE .

with practice you will find that one day for few seconds you were aware .your body was in act but you were not there ..you were standing apart ....THIS MOMENT IS OF CELIBACY .

CONTINUOUS practice of awareness in emotions will expand your consciousness....

the flower within u will bloom towards supreme light .

Enlightenment happens in fraction of second ...you become one with supreme bliss but that doesnt mean that you will change from black to white in one day . Ys you were thrown in timeless dimension...and now you will dissolve and grow in it. Now you have entered in the world of BUDDHAS ...you can show path of light to others ...but that doesn't mean that you have attained celibacy totally . Attaining celibacy totally where sex disappears , gender disappears even ...I am this too disapears....is not very easy state to attain....It happens to seekers whose life force energy totally targeted towards TOTAL DEATH .Whose every breath is in being absorbed in bliss ....who eat drink ,talk ,sleep in bliss ..he remembers nothing as personal identity ....

One day in dissolving a flower of celibacy blooms...................his being becomes too soft ,delicate ...

it happens as sex never existed in his life ..........

This happens with total dedication ,bhakti and madness to die totally in SOURCE

(POLLINATION ( sex) happens in flowers only to bloom once flower is bloomed its not needed any more.) ever .